Here’s a prude pop quiz:
What does the Tuesday Prude consider civilization’s chief threat?
A. The creeping view of clothing as obsolete
B. Escalating use of really, really bad words
C. Decreasing moral standards for behavior
D. All of the above but with one prevailing concern.
Oh, that all quizzes were so obvious! Of course the answer is
D.
You might ask: what could concern a prude more than the looming possibility of runway models wearing little more than a blingy belt between their pouts and their platform shoes?
While A,B and C, and of course the Birthday Suit trend in fashion all give prudes the shivers, we’re noticing a deeper, more fundamental crack in the bedrock of civilization.
Civility is disappearing.
Civility is becoming as rare, as difficult to find as prudes. So little civility to be found on television, in politics, religion, the workplace, the classroom, in families, among friends and amidst strangers.
So much incivility rushing to fill the void.
Sometimes incivility is disguised with wit or sarcasm, or excused because of strongly held beliefs and passions.
Boorish, discourteous behavior is almost expected in certain realms such as the editorial page and Washington DC, but now it has gurgled up, slobbered out, and mucked over everything else. Incivility is ubiquitous.
The Tuesday Prude would like to carve out a little section of the world that, at its core, is cordial.
Most prudes hold strongly to particular beliefs on religion, politics, education, society, language, nutrition and global stewardship. But this is not the venue to share them all.
We prefer not to mock, deride, satirize or condemn those whose views don’t match ours.
Not that we believe all opinions and ideas have equal validity.
Not because we don’t believe in absolutes.
But because this blog aspires to be one hundred percent courteous, one hundred percent of the time.
You don’t need to agree with everything the Tuesday Prude propounds. But we hope you share our desire for a more civil world.
NEXT WEEK: A PEEK AT A PRUDE’S ARSENAL
Hurray for civility, kindness, courtesy and manners. Civility rocks…and so does The Tuesday Prude!
More civility! I am all for it and looking forward to Tuesdays now every week!
Here, here, Prudie! All for civility (as well as cute babies)!
Thank you for this post. I heartily agree!
Dear Prude, how does one react when you realize that you are now more prudish than your mother even though you are as prudish as she was when she was your age? Why do some former prudes suddenly find certain behaviors (like their granddaughter living with her boyfriend in NY) to be acceptable and if the potential future in-laws are having a conniption it’s because “They are ‘THAT’ kind of Catholic?” I’m not even Catholic and I object. I agree with Beyonce (although I wish she wore more clothes) that if he wants it he needs to put a ring on it.