The “n” in the title is deliberately lower case, to differentiate it from the very Nasty N-word that makes most of us grit our teeth.
Nevertheless, this particular lower case n-word has great power over me. The power to make me blush.
No. I am not going to write it out. I’m relying on my favorite way of dealing with words that offend my prudish sensibilities—
Two of my favorites for this particular n-word are “birthday suit” and “in the altogether.”
Figured out what it is yet?
No? How about a synonym.
Never mind. I don’t like any of those either.
Here’s one of my own.
The first time I remember reading the n-word was maybe in 2nd grade? One of the Little House books, I think. The description of a tornado and the devastation it left hit me hard. I’ve been terrified of twisters ever since. But then. THEN. The narration described a survivor of the storm as being “n-word as a jaybird.”
Well. Yuck. That was my first reaction. I didn’t want to be caught up in a tornado and I especially didn’t want it dropping me off fully unclothed.
Hot on the heels of that gut-level prude reaction came judgement.
How could a book for kids print a word like that? I think I half expected it to incinerate before my eyes.
“Ick” and “that wasn’t nice!” are two of the natural-born prude’s natural reactions to things of the flesh. The final is embarrassment. What if someone—say God—caught me reading the n-word?
(This is a good time to take the blame for my prudishness off my parents and put it squarely where it belongs. An unknown genetic anomaly that develops freeform and randomly in a limited number of human children. [The animal kingdom appears immune. To my consternation. Many is the time I wished Rhesus monkeys were partial to pants.] If you’re worried that your offspring might be susceptible, don’t be. The prude gene is becoming increasingly extinct. My point is, my parents, although never given to swearing or vulgarity, are not responsible for my prudish nature. I was born this way.)
Maybe other prudes can handle the n-word. Prudes who don’t so closely link spoken or written words with mental images. When I hear or read the term “birthday suit,” a picture of someone crowned with icing and a candle on the head cavorting in confetti pops into my mind. The phrase ‘In the altogether’ springs into my minds eye a pleasingly plump individual, slightly pink, and tastefully blurred from the neck down. No, I don’t know why.
But the n-word? Or any of its synonyms? When I hear or see it or its associates— say ‘nudy-rudy’ word or the homonym for “bear”—and my mind runs madly for a beach towel or nice opaque sheet to cover the vision flashing in my head.
I have never been happy with the mess Adam and Eve led us into, but I’ve always been intensely grateful that in the aftermath, God at least let us wear clothes.
Note- the above cartoons are from “Cartoon Cavalcade” edited by Thomas Craven and published by Consolidated Book Publishers in 1945. Which means that although the cartoons I used were created before 1919 they may not actually be in the public domain and I could be in violation of copyright. But dug-nub-it. I worked so hard on finding appropriate—in more ways than one—images and adding text. I’m going to live dangerously.
Quoth Job: “Nekked came I out of my mother’s womb, and nekked shall I return thither. The Lord gave, and the Lord hath taken away; blessed be the name of the Lord.” Please note the n word is far more acceptable, even from Holy Scripture, written as a Southernism. Quite shocking to think our Lord actually used the word!
AHHAHA! I love it!
Oh, Anita, you make me laugh! As usual. I love following your train of thought from witticism to witticism. In some ways, with your prudish tendencies, you and I are birds of a feather–not a jaybird, mind you! Only fully clothed ones! My grown-up kids laugh at the things I raise my eyebrows at. Or shake their heads at my insistence on only using proper words for anatomy, never slang. Never a dull moment.
My boys think it is pretty funny too. When we watch a movie with salty language I see them look at me sideways. Waiting for me to faint? I remind them that I did work in a meat-packing plant for a time. I’ve heard it all. Just don’t like it all! (I love the “not a jaybird” line. Why a jaybird, I wonder?)
Another thing we have in common, my prudish friend. As a child, I recall answering the question “What do you want to be when you grow up?” With the answer, “Not a doctor or nurse, because I don’t want to see naked people.”
HA! I felt the same way! (Still do, obviously) 🙂